A Lesbian's Journey Through Trauma

Sometimes you have to laugh so you don't cry.

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  • After my previous break-up, I decided I was going to choose being single. This felt better than chasing the ghost of love. My fear of pain was far greater than my fear of dying alone. It is a common misconception to wonder if every relationship was a lie. Some people think that love was never…

  • You’re going to wake up one day and realize that she’s done trying. This wasn’t a decision that was made lightly. Nor was it a decision that was made out of nowhere. She gave you everything. She was more than happy just to have you next to her. She only expected your love and honesty…

  • The Difference Between a Mistake and an Intentional Pattern

    Something I once read, talked about a mistake in love being inevitable. How a mistake being made is not a reflection of how someone feels about you. We are all human and we fuck up sometimes. And when I talk about mistakes, I’m not referring to blatant lies, cheating, or a raised hand. I am…

  • What are your Deal Breakers in Romantic Relationships?  List them in Order of Importance.

    Before I start writing and getting into my list. I must mention that I have been guilty of some of these things and they hold true to me. Things I need to change in the future and learn better ways to go about them. Let me say that it is a given to expect loyalty,…

  • Hear me out…I know you were expecting me to say that I am thankful for someone or something. I am saving those for later. This time I want to say that I am beyond grateful for a place I call home. Granted I am a firm believer that home is where the heart is. At…

  • Buckle up, I have decided to start blogging instead of journaling. My story and life can definitely resonate with someone out there. You may very well need something to relate to. My story is definitely as big of a mess as my mind is. Forewarning, I can be all over the place with my thoughts,…